Safety How-To’s and Resources from the Digital Safety Guide


Digital Safety Guide

By Priests of St. Mary’s College and Academy

This introductory guide to the moral use of technology includes an overview of the most prevalent social media and other online dangers, particularly for young people. Practical suggestions and resources for the responsible use of technology are included as well.

Every Catholic who engages the online world, whether through a smartphone or computer, will benefit from this essential book. Parents who are considering giving their children access to any Internet-capable device should consult the recommendations here before doing so.

     50 pp. Softcover. STK# 8880 $6.95



Here are some recommendations for resources that assist in using devices with prudence:

Websites Worth Checking Out

  • ProtectYoungEyes.com (PYE). PYE is currently one of the best resources available. Dedicated to raising awareness of digital safety threats and providing practical instructions for device protection from inappropriate internet material and social media abuse, they offer:
  • The SSPX does not have any official affiliation with PYE, and we might not agree with everything that they present regarding parenting in general. Nevertheless, PYE is a very valuable resource for internet safeguards. See also:

  • FightTheNewDrug.org
  • TruthAboutPorn.org
  • CovenantEyes.com
  • Phones

    The best method for families (and friend groups) is to have shared filtering and accountability. If we make our devices an openly-used tool and not a private world, many pitfalls can be avoided.

  • Covenant Eyes (CovenantEyes.com) is the best app to date. It is worth the money.
  • Have a family policy, for example:
  • Even an app like Covenant Eyes isn’t foolproof. Additional apps like Bark can always add further protection.

    Children and teenagers simply should not be given smartphones. Perhaps the best method is to give seniors in high school a largely restricted smartphone with plenty of guidelines in order to give them the chance to form good habits before graduation.

    See also: Boomerang, Qustodio, Accountable2Me, and EverAccountable.

    Home Wi-Fi

  • Bad websites can be blocked at the very source by having a router like Gryphon.
  • Passwords should be changed frequently.
  • Because any internet device can pose problems, don’t fall for ‘innocent’ devices like Alexa, MP3 players, or Kindles...
  • ...Nor for tablets, etc., that don’t have data. All that is needed is a walk to the coffee shop or to the sidewalk in front of the neighbor’s house.
  • OpenDNS.
  • CleanBrowsing.org
  • Phones Without Internet

    The time is gone when it seemed like there were no options for a phone that could lead to falls. Here are our recommended devices:

  • Wisephone (Techless.com)
  • Lightphone (Thelightphone.com)
  • These following phones are geared more for teenagers as starter phones. They generally include features such as text monitoring, contact white-lists, restricted apps, time limits and schedules, tracking, and very thorough web or app monitoring. Recently, these companies have included apps for music, audiobooks, and GPS navigation.

  • Gabb phone (Gabbwireless.com)
  • Gabb watch
  • Pinwheel phone (Pinwheel.com)
  • Bark phone (Bark.us)
  • Troomi phone (Troomi.com)
  • MMGuardian phone (MMGuardian.com)
  • For Bark, Gabb, Troomi, and Pinwheel, you can get discounts through the PYE website. Nested within the article entitled “Best Phones for Kids: The Ultimate Guide,” is a list of affiliate links and discount codes originally posted in 2023 and updated in 2024. It seems likely that PYE will continue updating this resource.

    Other Options

    Other options that are available but have not been personally researched by the authors of this publication:

  • Nokia 3310
  • Sunbeam F1
  • Blu Tank II T193
  • LG B470 3G
  • Kyocera DuraXV LTE
  • Plum Ram 7 – 3G
  • Samsung Galaxy J2 Pro
  • Samsung Rugby 4
  • Setting up a safe internet connection can be confusing and time-consuming, but considering the risks of real inevitable threats to our souls and to those entrusted to us, establishing preventative measures is well worth the effort.

    We would advise something like this as a best-case scenario in a family:

  • One shared computer or tablet for the family
  • Safe Router/DNS
  • One shared smartphone for dad and mom, complete with an accountability app like Bark, and filtering like CovenantEyes.
  • No social media except for work, if necessary.
  • Browser and videos disabled on the phone.
  • One shared internet-free phone with transparency (WisePhone is a good option) for the kids to use when necessary.
  • As the kids grow up, frequently take the time to explain why the family rules are like this, what goods we are protecting, and what evils we are avoiding.
  • Towards the end of high school, teens can be given an accountable internet-free phone or can share a filtered and accountable smartphone with their parents.
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    Imagine the time regained and the peace of soul…

    GOOD READS

    Cal Newport

  • Digital Minimalism – Cal Newport
    • This book is fantastic, and everyone should read it.
  • Deep Work – Cal Newport
  • So Good They Can’t Ignore You – Cal Newport
    • An exposé on the insidious use of technology to exploit our attention for income.
  • Phone addiction / Kids vs. Tech

  • The Shallows – Nicholas Carr
    • A very interesting read about how the internet is changing how we think (and not for the better).
  • How to Break up with your Phone – Catherine Price
  • Jean Twenge, the author of iGen: Why Today’s Super-Connected Kids
  • Screen Schooled by Joe Clement & Matt Miles
  • Glow Kids, Dr. Nicholas Kardaras
  • Virtual Child by Cris A. Rowan
  • Social Media

  • Alone Together – Sherry Turkle
  • Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now by Jaron Lanier
  • Watch “The Social Dilemma” (2020)
  • Watch “Childhood 2.0” (2020)
  • Pornography

  • See the loads of free informational books and essays on CovenantEyes.com
  • The Porn Myth – Matt Fradd
  • ProtectYoungEyes.com – see the “Websites Worth Checking Out” section:
    • 5 Ways Pornography Harms Children and Teens
    • Why Kids Look at Pornography (It’s Not Their Fault)
    • Pornography: Not Just For Boys (Teen Girls Struggle, Too)
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